holiday relevations

Happy Christmas Eve! Well, not so happy over here on my end. My poor Pacho (my lovely silver Honda) got pretty banged up this afternoon. He went up against another Toyota and, lost. And throughout this whole thing, I just felt so guilty. Mind you I was not the driver but I still felt an enormous amount of guilt. That's when I realized, I have a freaking guilt-complex! Yup, a guilt-complex. I do realize that I tend to blame things on myself a lot. I also have this annoying habit of incessant apologies. Now that I have self-diagnoised myself, where can I find the cure?